I recently swept up by having a good galpal of mine I’dn’t noticed in many years. During the period of our four hour get up of brunch, many decaf coconut milk lattes, long blacks and soon after beers we worked out we’d dated the exact same man at precisely the same time in which he did one thing pretty shitty to each of us. At the least it is a story that is good we’d a great LOL.

Confession, the storyline begins beside me happening two times in a single evening. It had been a Saturday evening and I also had plans, but first We proceeded a supper date by having a guy that is nice friend had set me personally up with. After supper and approx 4 jugs of sangria he learned their automobile was indeed towed. We agreed to Uber him to your tow garden. It had been so embarrassing and I also felt actually bad for him, like must I offer him cash to simply help pay it off? I am talking about it isn’t my fault he parked across a person’s driveway in Ponsonby, aka the worst suburb to commit a parking criminal activity in. We bid adieu and I also met up with a few buddies and a man I happened to be messaging. He’d strike me personally up using the old “I’ve always wished to date you”. We’d a night that is really fun he basically begged if he could remain at mine. We later discovered it had been because he lived along with his ex, additionally mom of their kid. He desired to simply simply take me away for lunch seven days later, it had been an extremely lovely night until he took me personally to their work function. I want to just mention it had been a night and he all of a sudden decided he wanted to find drugs sunday. Any such thing he could easily get his arms on, He began their hopeless search and ditched me personally. He seemed appropriate I didn’t exist through me like. So yeah I got ditched on a romantic date, on A sunday evening by some guy whom probably discovered some crushed up panadol or trash pinga’s.

I happened to be quite furious and got an Uber house, He messaged the following day all apologetic, It made me feel actually crap about myself if i am entirely honest. Fast forward a 12 months later on my pal and I also worked out of the following Thursday she continued a night out together with him, he resulted in having a backpack and after one hour he shared with her to go homeward because he was planning to get saturated in the restroom.

A typical fundamental b restroom photo-shoot where we 100% don’t do medications, simply liked the walls being a history therefore the lighting ended up being good. Dora’s Druggo Brother could’ve learnt a plain thing or two from us re bar bathroom etiquette. (Note this NOT my pal he additionally dated, this is certainly one of most useful galpals Rebekah, who now i do believe about any of it could have gotten poo particles inside her cup of Pinot Noir)


I probably should’ve seen warning bells as he had been having benders on week evenings (sorry hon but Tuesday evenings aren’t actually an excellent evening for me personally to head out). Or when a warning was had by me fantasy (We have these often, some may state it really is crazy but We have ambitions with communications, warnings or around items that actually find yourself taking place). Him i dreamt about a chaotic situation, police were involved, screaming, blood and violence while I was dating. We knew whenever I woke up i really couldn’t see him any longer and that he had been dangerous,

Let us simply say there have been a few warning flags (maybe a small understatement). Moral associated with the tale, if a man putting on a backpack and contains horrendous halitosis comes your means RUN FOR THE HILLS FORREST! Like really that are you? Dora’s big druggo cousin? In every severity from my own experience (much better than the thing I have actually outlined above) dating druggies is an idea that is bad. It really is a total brain f. Wouldn’t normally suggest.


Don’t date individuals who do shitty what to you or make one feel bad about your self. You may be a QWEEN, a total treasure with a heart of silver (and bloodstream) and also you do not deserve that crap. Raise your criteria, respect your self! UNDERSTAND YOUR WORTH WOMAN. You will be a 10/10 and a whole lot.